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To make a statement on the current debate, I think a list of mandatory CW would be a good start on the instance level.
You can't enforce a rule if there's no explicit rule; you can't expect someone to CW everything you think deserve one without making it explicit.
So what would you want on that list?
@CobaltVelvet 1) porn 2) that's it
